<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215</id><updated>2011-11-27T19:55:02.722-05:00</updated><category term='weave'/><category term='natural'/><category term='women'/><category term='men'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='relaxed'/><category term='hair'/><category term='perference'/><title type='text'>Grace Under Fire</title><subtitle type='html'>Simply my life..</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>247</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3494198686424893598</id><published>2011-11-15T21:39:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-15T22:05:17.053-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Moment....</title><summary type='text'>Once in a while during the hormonal time of the month I'm easily irritated and generally feel as though I was body slammed. I can say I was doing pretty good today considering I was working from home and getting things at home and at work done all the while feeling like Granma after haven gotten run over by a reindeer.So I took it upon myself to respond to an email that I got from my aunt about </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3494198686424893598/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/11/moment.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3494198686424893598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3494198686424893598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/11/moment.html' title='A Moment....'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3476048440086713062</id><published>2011-10-21T12:26:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-21T12:43:40.002-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Some Thing Is Better Than Nothing...I Suppose</title><summary type='text'>So yesterday morning I stepped on the scale for my dreaded weekly weigh in and the movement or lack there of made me raise an eyebrow at the blasted thing...yes I even considered throwing the damn thing in the trash. Yes, the weight reading irritated me but what sent me over the edge is when I entered my new weight into the iphone app and I got this message, "Congratulations! You have lost .4lbs </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3476048440086713062/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/10/some-thing-is-better-thank-nothingi.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3476048440086713062'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3476048440086713062'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/10/some-thing-is-better-thank-nothingi.html' title='Some Thing Is Better Than Nothing...I Suppose'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-735173040836807077</id><published>2011-10-18T22:04:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-18T22:40:40.192-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Randoms...</title><summary type='text'>I figured if I come in here and post an entry of random thoughts not only would I amuse myself and possibly others but I might get over this writing block... Ok, wait. Does not wanting to write about certain things opposed to not writing anything at all because there is nothing else to write about count as writer's block?? Just nod you head yes and keep reading....Ok, anyway... I joined weight </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/735173040836807077/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/10/randoms.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/735173040836807077'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/735173040836807077'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/10/randoms.html' title='Randoms...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6041903926440764036</id><published>2011-08-14T23:31:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-15T00:26:03.100-04:00</updated><title type='text'>It's A Choice, Not A Movement...</title><summary type='text'>Just a few hours ago an article that was posted in essence.com was splattered on my FB status feed; the poster of said editorial then follows up with a paragraph long post rallying against any one who is trying to stop the "natural hair movement".Why can't going natural be a choice? Why does it have to be a movement? As you can see from my profile pic I'm natural myself and don't get me wrong </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6041903926440764036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/08/its-choice-not-movement.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6041903926440764036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6041903926440764036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/08/its-choice-not-movement.html' title='It&apos;s A Choice, Not A Movement...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8858101916101972785</id><published>2011-08-01T11:15:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-01T11:44:18.281-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Sweet Hand of Jesus...</title><summary type='text'>Over the weekend my rental office gave residents notices that August 2-8 they would be closing down a portion of the parking lot requiring for every one that lived in certain buildings to park in the back of the building, across the street from the complex or near the pool. So I posted said notice up on my refrigerator as a reminder to me don't forget to put the car in the back when you get home </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8858101916101972785/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/08/sweet-hand-of-jesus.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8858101916101972785'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8858101916101972785'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/08/sweet-hand-of-jesus.html' title='The Sweet Hand of Jesus...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7173528675627797715</id><published>2011-07-27T11:19:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-27T12:01:05.522-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Just Some Thoughts...</title><summary type='text'>Yesterday was not the best day for me as you could read from my last entry (I can't remember ever having a day that bad). I went home, got the kid fed and off to bed. Though the work day was done, Lil Bit was sleep and I had my quiet I still felt so unsettled and upset. I wasn't necessarily upset about the events of the past two days but there were just some other things that were bothering me. I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7173528675627797715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/just-some-thoughts.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7173528675627797715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7173528675627797715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/just-some-thoughts.html' title='Just Some Thoughts...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1789691185644717115</id><published>2011-07-26T14:41:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-26T15:24:44.744-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry Cube Today Was Not A Good Day...</title><summary type='text'>About a year or two ago I wrote about this complaint challenge I was doing. I was able to successfully not complain for 30 days and after the challenge was over I managed to continue with the spirit of no complaining.  Well...the way I feel I really want to complain...I really want to...I may need to hit that challenge again until then...I can't STAND and I mean CAN'T STAND when I tell someone </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1789691185644717115/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/sorry-cube-today-was-not-good-day.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1789691185644717115'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1789691185644717115'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/sorry-cube-today-was-not-good-day.html' title='Sorry Cube Today Was Not A Good Day...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1502857801176580605</id><published>2011-07-22T20:30:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-22T21:04:24.382-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Let's Be Clear...</title><summary type='text'>Last week I was invited out to lunch and I declined. Well, in the midst of the invite I was being teased for being anti social (most times I'm too busy to leave for lunch), which annoyed the shit out of me. So you ask if you had admitted that you are anti social then why did that annoy you? It's the truth. Ok yes, I admit there are times I don't want to be around people, I HATE small talk and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1502857801176580605/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/lets-be-clear.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1502857801176580605'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1502857801176580605'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/lets-be-clear.html' title='Let&apos;s Be Clear...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6700085500581950641</id><published>2011-07-22T16:00:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-07-22T16:42:50.205-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My Heart...</title><summary type='text'>I have been sitting here for the last 30 minutes or so trying to put what I am feeling into words....ok so I have been on the phone for a good portion of that time but still, translating it is kind of difficult. Anyway...I hate the conflict between my mind and my heart. As always my heart is far beyond where my mind is...wayyyyy to far. I mean damn! Can my heart not race when ever I hear his </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6700085500581950641/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/my-heart.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6700085500581950641'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6700085500581950641'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/07/my-heart.html' title='My Heart...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6583642025779394519</id><published>2011-06-19T23:39:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-19T23:47:20.625-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Weightloss...</title><summary type='text'>Speaking of plans. LOL! I have unsuccessfully attempted to get back on the wagon with changing my eating habits and I seriously don't feel as though I am properly preparing myself to eat through out the day. I got an iphone app that is supposed to help track calories, which I stopped using 1000 calories ago and Zumba for Wii that is still sitting in the box collecting dust....Yes, the whole thing</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6583642025779394519/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/06/weightloss.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6583642025779394519'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6583642025779394519'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/06/weightloss.html' title='Weightloss...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://img.youtube.com/vi/wG8oMmTjiyI/default.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6592759415609559135</id><published>2011-06-19T22:43:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-19T23:26:59.634-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Best Laid Plans...</title><summary type='text'>"The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry"- Robert BurnsTruer words have never been spoken. I have spent months planning out how the rest of the year would go for me, I have anticipated on how things would happen only for them to not happen at all or not happen within my time frame. None the less I have allowed myself 24 hours to cry and wallow in the disappointment of it all before </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6592759415609559135/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/06/best-laid-plans.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6592759415609559135'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6592759415609559135'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/06/best-laid-plans.html' title='The Best Laid Plans...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8463385993100946574</id><published>2011-03-30T20:54:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-03-30T21:15:41.440-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Rants, Updates and All That Good Stuff</title><summary type='text'>The last few weeks have been some shit. I don't know what has been up with me but I have been in a state of some form of irritation. Either I have been irritated, easily irritated or one more word from being irritated. The first source of my irritation; why do people want what the hell I have? For real! Seriously! If one  more person comes to my desk and requests for me to order them something (</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8463385993100946574/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/03/rants-updates-and-all-that-good-stuff.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8463385993100946574'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8463385993100946574'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/03/rants-updates-and-all-that-good-stuff.html' title='Rants, Updates and All That Good Stuff'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8528111485777323729</id><published>2011-02-21T10:00:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-21T10:16:28.140-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Meatless Life</title><summary type='text'>I mentioned in my last entry that I did the Lemonade Diet and my diet there after would consist of fruits, vegetables and seafood. I have been on this same diet for the past 3-4 weeks and I can say I am beginning to get bored with it. I really need to find new recipes before I kill me a cow, make steaks and ground beef just to keep things interesting. I know that may sound extreme but it is all </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8528111485777323729/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/02/meatless-life.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8528111485777323729'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8528111485777323729'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/02/meatless-life.html' title='A Meatless Life'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-181571058315706842</id><published>2011-02-02T13:23:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-02T14:04:41.471-05:00</updated><title type='text'>"If You Fail To Plan, Then You Plan To Fail"</title><summary type='text'>That is a quote that my sorority sister lives by and it was not until I really started hitting my weight loss journey hard that I truly understood the meaning of that quote. Two nights ago I was being so lazy in making sure I made my lunch and had my breakfast ready to take with me to work. Hell I even forgot my water bottle. I spent the next morning in the kitchen rushing to get everything </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/181571058315706842/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/02/if-you-fail-to-plan-then-you-plan-to.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/181571058315706842'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/181571058315706842'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/02/if-you-fail-to-plan-then-you-plan-to.html' title='&quot;If You Fail To Plan, Then You Plan To Fail&quot;'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2508050245381485618</id><published>2011-01-01T14:43:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-01T15:00:07.434-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Take Care of Your Kids...</title><summary type='text'>Happy Happy New Year Folks! I hope you all rang in the new year how you expected to and I hope you are not as hung over as I am...my head is banging.Anyway, I was to drunk to write about this topic last night but I find myself irritated at the growing number of women who don't seem to get nor understand the sacrifice that comes along with being a mother.I have seen to many women drag their kids </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2508050245381485618/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/01/take-care-of-your-kids.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2508050245381485618'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2508050245381485618'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2011/01/take-care-of-your-kids.html' title='Take Care of Your Kids...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-253293092616913502</id><published>2010-12-31T22:22:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-31T22:57:49.198-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Leaving Behind in 2010...</title><summary type='text'>I have started drinking real early so I hope it all makes sense. One of my girlfriends posted a question on our group board, "What are you leaving behind in 2010?" Honestly I could not really answer that question at the time it was posed but considering the after Christmas drama I experienced; finding out my now ex was seeing someone else, subsequently beating his ass and throwing him out my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/253293092616913502/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/12/leaving-behind-in-2010.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/253293092616913502'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/253293092616913502'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/12/leaving-behind-in-2010.html' title='Leaving Behind in 2010...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8274246908258495101</id><published>2010-11-04T21:49:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-11-04T22:17:13.535-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Lascivious...</title><summary type='text'>Tech told me his friend asked him to describe me in one word and he said, "lascivious". Lascivious? Really? NOT.NOT and NOT. He needs to get his hormones and mentals in check because I am not lewd nor am I lustful. I am real and I can't help that I say what is on my mind at any given moment. Lascivious my ass...Anyway that is not what I really wanted to write about, I said something about it in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8274246908258495101/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/11/lascivious.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8274246908258495101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8274246908258495101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/11/lascivious.html' title='Lascivious...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6593729575571174384</id><published>2010-11-02T23:01:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-11-02T23:02:31.065-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Wine...</title><summary type='text'>Wine is such a splendid thing to have after a long and hard day. It is also a good tool for lowering inhibitions and saying or writing the things that need to be written in a blog entry. LOL! I just needed a little boost to help me to stop procrastinating on writing this; not because deep down inside I know what I am about to write is hog wash or using it as a defense mechanism it is because what</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6593729575571174384/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/11/wine.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6593729575571174384'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6593729575571174384'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/11/wine.html' title='Wine...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-9074489971614479498</id><published>2010-10-29T10:10:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-10-29T10:18:35.016-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hope...</title><summary type='text'>Hope is such a funny thing. Hope keeps you believing, it keeps you optimistic and often time it keeps you in a place of instability and unable to let go when the obvious is in your face. Why not let go when you know you have an inkling you are on a path to no where? Because that hope you hold onto so tightly that propels you further and further in driven by you optimism that it will all be ok, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/9074489971614479498/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/10/hope.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9074489971614479498'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9074489971614479498'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/10/hope.html' title='Hope...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2729436846558671068</id><published>2010-09-14T09:51:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-09-14T10:24:54.688-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Lipstick Kids</title><summary type='text'>I remember when I was Lil bit's age having been dropped off at pre school with my other little friends I would watch how their mothers would give them a kiss on their forehead or cheek leaving traces of their lip stick. I saw how it brightened their day as they bounced into class silently showing off their mothers' token of affection. I remember so desperately wanting my mom to do the same. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2729436846558671068/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/09/lipstick-kids.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2729436846558671068'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2729436846558671068'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/09/lipstick-kids.html' title='Lipstick Kids'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6581408152941030033</id><published>2010-09-01T14:40:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-09-01T15:22:36.018-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Growing Old Gracefully....</title><summary type='text'>Is something that I always thought I would do until I found a long strand of grey hair in my head a few weeks ago. I felt the panic rise up in me and I had to bring myself back down to Earth before I raided the beauty store for every bit of hair color they had.Though I know where there is one grey hair there are many more hiding or to follow I still need to face reality that it is a part of the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6581408152941030033/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/09/growing-old-gracefully.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6581408152941030033'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6581408152941030033'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/09/growing-old-gracefully.html' title='Growing Old Gracefully....'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7405790758470557575</id><published>2010-08-31T21:01:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-31T21:33:06.877-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Similac</title><summary type='text'>Tonight I have been reduced to blogging via my phone because good ole Comcast is having an outage. As I sit here in silence my Direct TV having neighbors are sitting back and watching our country's Commander and Chief talk about how our young men and women will train their Iraqi counter parts on how to protect and serve their homeland putting an end to a decade long war. I consistently pray about</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7405790758470557575/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/similac.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7405790758470557575'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7405790758470557575'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/similac.html' title='Similac'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7589299449584039723</id><published>2010-08-30T12:07:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-30T12:51:06.480-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I Did IT!</title><summary type='text'>The month of August has been such a long and busy month. I finally moved about two weeks ago. I have been working hard to get my things unpacked and settled. I thought I would not have a hard time adjusting to living on my own but I realize that it is going to take a while for me to get used to my new environment.My first night in my new home I took a bold step and cut my hair off. I remember co </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7589299449584039723/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/i-did-it.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7589299449584039723'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7589299449584039723'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/i-did-it.html' title='I Did IT!'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1897330828615893732</id><published>2010-08-17T13:47:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-17T14:59:45.650-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='perference'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='hair'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relaxed'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weave'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='natural'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship'/><title type='text'>What Do Men Really Think?</title><summary type='text'>Teach and I were talking a few weeks ago and I was all up in the video cam trying to fix my hair and he was like, "ok what gives? Your hair is fine." I then revealed to him that I was going natural, I was not yet comfortable with the transition piece of it and I wanted to make sure my hair looked nice. This sparked a conversation about his preference for women with natural hair and how he likes </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1897330828615893732/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/what-do-men-really-think.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1897330828615893732'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1897330828615893732'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/what-do-men-really-think.html' title='What Do Men Really Think?'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4979933088336716817</id><published>2010-08-17T13:09:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-17T14:27:55.187-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Haps!</title><summary type='text'>There has been plenty going on with me for the last few weeks and I have so many blog entries to write but I just really have not felt like it. Does that ever happen to you? You have something to write but don't really feel like writing it? Ok anyway, I am moving this week. I am some what excited but for the most part I am anxious to get it done already. I hate being in a state of limbo when it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4979933088336716817/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/haps.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4979933088336716817'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4979933088336716817'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/haps.html' title='The Haps!'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1653727200911447260</id><published>2010-08-13T12:02:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-13T12:19:50.962-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Tired and Frustrated (Hair Rant)</title><summary type='text'>Ok, I know I have neglected the blog but I have had a lot of things to do in regards to my move next week (like packing and organizing)that I have not really given a  thought to the blog.But I am getting tired of my hair and this whole transition period. My transitional styles do not come out right because my relaxed hair is equivalent to pony hair at this point and it is racking my nerves. I so </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1653727200911447260/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/tired-and-frustrated-hair-rant.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1653727200911447260'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1653727200911447260'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/tired-and-frustrated-hair-rant.html' title='Tired and Frustrated (Hair Rant)'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3737454809419457553</id><published>2010-08-01T16:35:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-01T17:21:12.452-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Hair and Skin (Product Reviews)</title><summary type='text'>I'm mad. I think I am partly mad at myself and partly mad at Johnson &amp; Johnson for making a boot leg product. I am talking about their Clean and Clear 3 in 1 foaming facial wash and their Deep Cleaning Astringent. At this moment I have a rash on my face from it. As soon as I smelled how fragrant it was I immediately knew that nothing good was going to come of it but I kept up hope. After all it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3737454809419457553/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/hair-and-skin-product-reviews.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3737454809419457553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3737454809419457553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/08/hair-and-skin-product-reviews.html' title='Hair and Skin (Product Reviews)'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8336366722537937887</id><published>2010-07-29T15:40:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-29T16:25:07.331-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Mean Girls</title><summary type='text'>First I'd like to thank Rashad for the link he sent to me. She was really informative and helpful and the link further aided me in my You Tube addiction. Just pray for me people.Well I would say that I am going to do a blog specifically to chronical my journey to natural hairdom (nappural I thin they call it) but I am not. I will lightly season this blog with the subject here and there. After all</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8336366722537937887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/mean-girls.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8336366722537937887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8336366722537937887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/mean-girls.html' title='Mean Girls'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3220446143594887288</id><published>2010-07-28T00:26:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-29T16:27:24.654-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Au Naturale...</title><summary type='text'>So I decided a few months ago that no matter what I do or how I feel, I would stop relaxing my hair. So when I first started this journey of growing the relaxer out I figured I could just get a texturizer so my hair can be more manageable, negative. I hate the damn texturizer and I just need to go cold turkey on this one. So I am sucking it up and trying different transitional styles a long the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3220446143594887288/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/au-naturale.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3220446143594887288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3220446143594887288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/au-naturale.html' title='Au Naturale...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4031228161482911147</id><published>2010-07-22T22:37:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T23:03:07.456-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Parental Woes...</title><summary type='text'>There is something that automatically triggers in a parent from the time you find out your bundle of joy will be arrive. Everything changes and you slowly begin to prepare for you baby to arrive. You do everything you think you should do, what your doctor tells you to do and avoid the things you aren't supposed to do in hopes that your baby will come out with a good spirit and health that will </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4031228161482911147/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/parental-woes.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4031228161482911147'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4031228161482911147'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/parental-woes.html' title='Parental Woes...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7737279275988468990</id><published>2010-07-20T16:27:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-20T16:51:46.179-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Moving On...</title><summary type='text'>I guess the sun, moon and stars had aligned to bring Prodigal and I back together for one last meeting. No, not like that we just had lunch. I can honestly say seeing him made my day for I know part of me would be mad if he let this thing between us get in the way of at least seeing one another before he left. Like I told him at lunch, when everything else is gone away the one thing left should </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7737279275988468990/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/moving-on.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7737279275988468990'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7737279275988468990'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/moving-on.html' title='Moving On...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7751539508142023326</id><published>2010-07-19T21:53:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-19T22:11:28.836-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Did I Say Something Wrong?</title><summary type='text'>When the monotony of things wear off then you must deal with the reality of the situation at hand. Prodigal and I were supposed to have gone to lunch on Friday to see each other and catch up etc; well I tried calling him the night before to firm up our plans for Friday afternoon and got no answer. I figured if he did not call me back by the time I laid my head on my pillow that night then it was </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7751539508142023326/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/did-i-say-something-wrong.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7751539508142023326'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7751539508142023326'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/did-i-say-something-wrong.html' title='Did I Say Something Wrong?'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2420409580353361045</id><published>2010-07-16T00:39:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-16T00:56:38.385-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I Hate You Biotch!!!!</title><summary type='text'>I know hate is a very strong word and normally I stay in a state of indifference with a lot of things. But this one thing I have to come out the box on...Insomnia is a bitch and this bitch I hate. This trick thinks this shit is a joke when I have to wake up early and go to work the next morning. Every night you come fucking with me preventing me from falling asleep, leaving me tossing, turning, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2420409580353361045/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/i-hate-you-biotch.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2420409580353361045'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2420409580353361045'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/i-hate-you-biotch.html' title='I Hate You Biotch!!!!'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6915778304631803770</id><published>2010-07-13T20:51:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T21:00:53.420-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Hell????</title><summary type='text'>I don't  know if I was in denial about what I was feeling for Prodigal or if the excitement of seeing my friend has finally hit me after his many failed attempts to come back out this way for a visit... but I found myself thinking if I should call him when I saw his FB status alerting every one that he got here safely. Finally I decided to call him and no answer, only for him to call me right </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6915778304631803770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/hell.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6915778304631803770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6915778304631803770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/hell.html' title='The Hell????'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5957370846439509936</id><published>2010-07-13T10:43:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-13T10:57:52.079-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Guess Who's Coming To Town???</title><summary type='text'>It is entirely to early in the morning therefore I am not going to sit here and throw out a bunch of potentially useless hints just for me to tell you at the end that Prodigal is coming to town. Actually his plane will be touching down at my local airport within the next few hours.I am not going to say too too much right now because I forgot that I did give him a link to the blog but...well what </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5957370846439509936/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/guess-whos-coming-to-town.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5957370846439509936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5957370846439509936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/guess-whos-coming-to-town.html' title='Guess Who&apos;s Coming To Town???'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5168912536891450060</id><published>2010-07-01T21:46:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-01T22:00:52.186-04:00</updated><title type='text'>It's So Necessary</title><summary type='text'>Now that we have flew through June into the month of July it is really time for me to sit down and begin planning the logistics of my up coming move. I have already been saving rather large sums of money in order to better prepare myself for the new transition and most importantly emergencies but there was one thing that I realized is a must to factor into the budget, a maid.Yes, I said a maid. I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5168912536891450060/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/its-so-necessary.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5168912536891450060'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5168912536891450060'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/07/its-so-necessary.html' title='It&apos;s So Necessary'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5169346826611490316</id><published>2010-06-19T21:00:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-19T21:14:46.622-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A Riddle For You??</title><summary type='text'>How many times does a man (one you want to leave you alone) have to leave a note on your car before he is considered a stalker??Yes, my people this fool left another note on my car just when I thought it was really over. I figured that if I did not respond to the first note then he would let it be and leave me alone. I was taken a back when a family friend walked into my home and handed me a note</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5169346826611490316/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/riddle-for-you.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5169346826611490316'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5169346826611490316'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/riddle-for-you.html' title='A Riddle For You??'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4532025003275263686</id><published>2010-06-15T10:07:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-15T10:23:12.012-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Notes!</title><summary type='text'>This morning as I was rushing out of the door I had grabbed a note off of my car. I assumed the note came from the trash men who by now I thought would probably be tired of me parking my truck in front of the mail box, thus preventing them from pulling the trash truck up to the front of the house therefore requiring them to actually walk over and bring the trash to the truck.When I opened the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4532025003275263686/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/notes.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4532025003275263686'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4532025003275263686'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/notes.html' title='Notes!'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7776919278854695521</id><published>2010-06-10T11:09:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-10T11:44:07.203-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Unwritten Rules...</title><summary type='text'>My girlfriend developed a system that I have seen implemented across many a female friendships across the country, the Warning System. This Warning System was established to warn said friends that there is an up coming geigh moment (a moment of total and utter mushiness about your man, boo etc;) and then there is the TMI moment where more than what a friend should know is about to be blurted out </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7776919278854695521/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/unwritten-rules.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7776919278854695521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7776919278854695521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/unwritten-rules.html' title='Unwritten Rules...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-379712645706332193</id><published>2010-06-09T12:09:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-09T12:37:56.024-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Just A Theory</title><summary type='text'>Before I get into this entry I am just going to fore warn you all that I will be trying some thing new with the blog. I will have le signature after each entry and though I was completely against getting the mind spring box, I think it is called so you all can ask an enormous amount of questions anonymously, I am teetering on it but I am not completely sold as of yet. Yeah, the folks that know me</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/379712645706332193/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/just-theory.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/379712645706332193'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/379712645706332193'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/just-theory.html' title='Just A Theory'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5080128231714421659</id><published>2010-06-06T01:20:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-06-06T01:39:49.223-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Epiphany...</title><summary type='text'>An idle mind is the Devil's play ground and I have to admit that is true. Tonight I was bored out of my mind! Just me, the internet, space and plenty of opportunity. So I went and looked up Lil Bit's father on the net and found his various pages on different social networking sites and I realized that I have arrive to destination indifference.I would say there was a time when I would cry just to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5080128231714421659/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/epiphany.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5080128231714421659'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5080128231714421659'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/06/epiphany.html' title='Epiphany...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1464445839620641565</id><published>2010-05-23T13:07:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-23T13:55:35.249-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Nonchalant...</title><summary type='text'>Usually in a new situation when I first meet/start talking to/dating some one I find that I easily become the aggressive one in the situation and I find that I am the one initiating the next steps in what ever the situation is. In a few entries back I wrote about Tech and how he was sent to Germany days before we were supposed to have gone out on our first date.Tech leaving made me fall back a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1464445839620641565/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/nonchalant.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1464445839620641565'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1464445839620641565'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/nonchalant.html' title='Nonchalant...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3505862529581288639</id><published>2010-05-20T18:56:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-20T19:18:13.236-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Picking It back Up...</title><summary type='text'>First off let me just say I am not making any promises and for the most part I am going to try to blog more. When I first started this blog my life was very unsettled; I had just gave up my apartment (my independence too in away), lost and obtained a new job and had relationship issues like no one would not believe. Not to say I have not had relationship issues over the past two years that I have</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3505862529581288639/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/picking-it-back-up.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3505862529581288639'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3505862529581288639'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/picking-it-back-up.html' title='Picking It back Up...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1639950303984460228</id><published>2010-05-20T12:09:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-20T12:27:03.656-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thrown Under The Bus</title><summary type='text'>One of my Face book friends posed this question to every one for the day, If one of your co workers threw you under the bus what would you do? How would you handle it?I found it very ironic that he would ask that question today because two of my co workers threw me under the bus on Tuesday. See part of my job is to confirm the start of employees once they have arrived for their first day of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1639950303984460228/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/thrown-under-bus.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1639950303984460228'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1639950303984460228'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/thrown-under-bus.html' title='Thrown Under The Bus'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-9102450636373947086</id><published>2010-05-19T20:29:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-05-19T20:53:44.313-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Helping vs. Enabling</title><summary type='text'>So this issues has been one of the many things that have been annoying me over the last few days. As I wrote in this here blog two years ago I had to move in with my Dad and his witch *ahem* I mean wife until I got myself together after having been laid off from my job. Fast forward two years and I finally took care of the things that were preventing me from moving (with some assistance from Dad,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/9102450636373947086/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/help-vs-enabling.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9102450636373947086'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9102450636373947086'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/05/help-vs-enabling.html' title='Helping vs. Enabling'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7960376460402051036</id><published>2010-04-29T19:55:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-29T20:37:45.247-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Not Every Thing Is For Every Body</title><summary type='text'>A few months ago I wrote a blog about this semi liquid diet that my co worker coaxed me into doing and I quickly remembered that I can't do all the things that the other little kids on the play ground do. LOL! I got sick off of it and I mean SIIIICK. So my having gotten sick along with missing the action of tasting and actually chewing my food I said fuck it and just stopped. I couldn't take it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7960376460402051036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/not-every-thing-is-for-every-body.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7960376460402051036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7960376460402051036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/not-every-thing-is-for-every-body.html' title='Not Every Thing Is For Every Body'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8525749176616665429</id><published>2010-04-16T11:17:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-16T11:53:14.569-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Such Is Life...</title><summary type='text'>Sicily, 1989 it was... LOL! I love Sophia from the Golden Girls she always started a story off right. Any way, I guess I am a little sullen today actually I have been like this since Wednesday...I met this man at my job who is a computer tech assigned to my floor. Apparently he was tasked with trouble shooting the bad batch of computers Dell had sent everyone on my floor and had to go around to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8525749176616665429/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/such-is-life.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8525749176616665429'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8525749176616665429'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/such-is-life.html' title='Such Is Life...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3116950743983129140</id><published>2010-04-06T16:32:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-06T16:48:03.711-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Got Some Down Time...</title><summary type='text'>I actually have down time at work. It is a little scary because I am wondering when the when the flash flood will hit but hey I am going to enjoy it while it lasts. Any way...I did not make it to the WILD party my co worker threw for her birthday last Saturday night. What can I say? The day in the life of a single mother, my baby was sick and honestly so was I (ok I was not sick but I was not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3116950743983129140/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/got-some-down-time.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3116950743983129140'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3116950743983129140'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/got-some-down-time.html' title='Got Some Down Time...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-581130935926864663</id><published>2010-04-02T09:39:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-04-02T12:27:35.966-04:00</updated><title type='text'>All That I Can Say...</title><summary type='text'>Is that I really don't feel up to writing separate blogs so this may be one long blog about many different things.First up...Last week I was really feeling the effects of Ms. Candy no longer being here with us. I really felt like I had lost a limb and have spent the last few months trying to figure out how to function with out it. I knew I depended on her but I did not realize how much I had </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/581130935926864663/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/all-that-i-can-say.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/581130935926864663'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/581130935926864663'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/04/all-that-i-can-say.html' title='All That I Can Say...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5034973401338840510</id><published>2010-03-20T00:16:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-03-20T00:56:42.997-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Changes...</title><summary type='text'>Yeah as you can see I dusted this thing off and decided to do some decorating around here. Yeaaaah this is more me.Any way....This time change has really thrown me off. I find that I cannot go to sleep at night and have the hardest time getting up in the morning. Right now it feels like my body will never get used to the change. Don't get me wrong I love the extra hour of day light but damn I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5034973401338840510/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/03/changes.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5034973401338840510'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5034973401338840510'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/03/changes.html' title='Changes...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4752536123757366577</id><published>2010-02-13T20:39:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-13T20:52:36.883-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Gimmie A Break!</title><summary type='text'>Though I know better to think that I would get a break from accident (my car was hit yesterday) and tragedy after Candy's sudden passing, a part of me was hoping that a break it something I would get. NOT! Life refuses to do such a thing therefore I must endure what ever it throws at me. So far there have been two additional sudden deaths within my family, which right now is to much for me as I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4752536123757366577/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/02/gimmie-break.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4752536123757366577'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4752536123757366577'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/02/gimmie-break.html' title='Gimmie A Break!'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4043313431693294936</id><published>2010-01-30T23:08:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-30T23:23:37.826-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ethical Dilemma... What Would You Do?</title><summary type='text'>Ok, If you so happen to have read the entry before this one then you know I am on a weight loss plan that requires shakes. Last week I had place my first order for a few boxes of shakes and requested they send the order to the address in which I currently reside and not the address I have my mail sent to. *sigh* Once again reading is fucking fundamental, despite the fact my shipping address is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4043313431693294936/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/01/ethical-dilema-what-would-you-do.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4043313431693294936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4043313431693294936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/01/ethical-dilema-what-would-you-do.html' title='Ethical Dilemma... What Would You Do?'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5775607636727381354</id><published>2010-01-30T22:44:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-30T23:07:29.248-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Reading Is Fundamental...</title><summary type='text'>Before I begin this entry I would like to thank every one for well wishes and condolences. Though I have gotten to a point where I am emotionally ok, Lil Bit has not quite gotten there. I am literally pulling patience and tolerance from every place I can in helping her work through her little grieving process.Moving on...My co worker had hipped me to this semi liquid diet plan. The reason why I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5775607636727381354/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/01/reading-is-fundamental.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5775607636727381354'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5775607636727381354'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/01/reading-is-fundamental.html' title='Reading Is Fundamental...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8860923864904440130</id><published>2010-01-21T22:20:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-22T00:00:56.825-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Time...</title><summary type='text'>As most of you can tell by reading my blog I am not the most social person around. I speak when I have to, will say hello to my neighbors but avoid all small talk when possible and I keep my circle of close friends rather small. When I lived in the DC area I had a lady who lived upstairs from me that sold candy out of her house. She was known as the candy lady and everyone even her family called </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8860923864904440130/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/01/time.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8860923864904440130'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8860923864904440130'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2010/01/time.html' title='Time...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6299945573642535887</id><published>2009-12-30T19:50:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-30T22:11:21.248-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Unevenly Yoked...</title><summary type='text'>After Christmas came the big break up...I went into this relationship knowing that in away we were "unevenly yoked" as my girlfriend so gently puts it. What do I mean by unevenly yoked? I make more money than he does, I am in a totally different place in life emotionally, financially and my maturity level is higher. At first it seemed to be an issue because he used to tease me all the time by </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6299945573642535887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/12/unevenly-yoked.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6299945573642535887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6299945573642535887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/12/unevenly-yoked.html' title='Unevenly Yoked...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6757143386372939511</id><published>2009-12-08T10:31:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-08T10:49:50.281-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Commencement...</title><summary type='text'>One of my readers had brought to my attention that I did not blog about my graduation ceremony on Saturday and wanted to know why? I am not sure why I neglected to blog about it ...oh yeah I know why. It just was not on my mind to blog about it because the day, the whole weekend itself was hustle and bustle on the go all the time.I had "issues" getting to the ceremony on Saturday. What should </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6757143386372939511/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/12/commencement.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6757143386372939511'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6757143386372939511'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/12/commencement.html' title='Commencement...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6409322341036959786</id><published>2009-12-01T20:36:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-01T20:55:40.714-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Marriage.</title><summary type='text'>A few weeks ago I was having a text conversation with El in which he asked me, "What do I have to do to get you to marry me?" Wow, that was a real loaded question and it is coming rather soon in the relationship...but I guess if he feels that strongly then he just feels that strongly. We will see what happens next summer when we have both settled into the relationship fully and our flaws are </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6409322341036959786/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/12/marriage.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6409322341036959786'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6409322341036959786'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/12/marriage.html' title='Marriage.'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-783594470723044240</id><published>2009-11-27T22:48:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-27T23:28:04.985-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Cupid's Arrow...</title><summary type='text'>Ok, I have to admit that chubby lil bastard got me with his arrow. Over the last few years I have spent time and energy perfecting my nonchalant attitude, being ok with not having a man or dating any one, controlling the level of my feelings for some one and just when my back was turned he shot me...now I am in love.Who would have thought a few months ago after being stood up by ABB and walking </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/783594470723044240/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/11/cupids-arrow.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/783594470723044240'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/783594470723044240'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/11/cupids-arrow.html' title='Cupid&apos;s Arrow...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4644540627409639667</id><published>2009-11-17T14:13:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T14:52:21.982-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The Art Of Gift Giving,,,</title><summary type='text'>I know it is mid day and I should be working but for some reason I had this blog burning in my mind so I figured getting it off of my mind will help me concentrate on the task that I am paid to do.Any way I look at gift giving to be an art and in some respects a competition. There is nothing like setting out to find the perfect gift that fits the personality of the person you are buying the gift </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4644540627409639667/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/11/art-of-gift-giving.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4644540627409639667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4644540627409639667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/11/art-of-gift-giving.html' title='The Art Of Gift Giving,,,'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4337641953285613101</id><published>2009-10-22T11:45:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T13:24:29.917-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Just Some Thoughts...</title><summary type='text'>First, can I just say I hate blogging at work? I feel as though I have to restrain my self when writing at work. I can't do to much cussing and I can't say what I really feel about my job on my worst days; it just sucks.Anyway...Over the last few weeks I have been thinking about relationships and this whole finding the "one" and your "soul mate" type thought process and my experience over the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4337641953285613101/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/just-some-thoughts.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4337641953285613101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4337641953285613101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/just-some-thoughts.html' title='Just Some Thoughts...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-985560566269660259</id><published>2009-10-19T18:35:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T18:52:02.190-04:00</updated><title type='text'>1537</title><summary type='text'>I was scrolling through my email box reading emails, thinking how I need to start cleaning out my email box then I thought of the special folder that I created especially for ABB's emails. I did not keep the emails as back up or proof to dispel anything he said (as I have been accused of *roll eyes*), I kept them because they were near to me in some sort of way and there were some sweet and what </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/985560566269660259/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/1537.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/985560566269660259'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/985560566269660259'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/1537.html' title='1537'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1446254241680875784</id><published>2009-10-15T21:46:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T22:06:10.608-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Break Down</title><summary type='text'>Yeah, ok I fell off the wagon. I broke down like a hoopty and bought dinner tonight. But how could I not have stepped outside of my spending fast? Looking at the week I have had...Last Friday I went to the doctor for my never ending cough and found out that I had bronchitis. My doctor is one that never writes a perscription and she always finds a natural remedy for what ever ailes you, not at </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1446254241680875784/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/break-down.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1446254241680875784'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1446254241680875784'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/break-down.html' title='The Break Down'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_jw66FPPfO_Q/StfSDHTZFYI/AAAAAAAAAEw/nkYVLPDZ010/s72-c/9622_151994668716_514073716_2778142_541519_n.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-563470484444675409</id><published>2009-10-14T10:40:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T10:47:38.076-04:00</updated><title type='text'>How The Hell?</title><summary type='text'>Monday morning on my way to work my tire blew out. I uploaded pics to FB because my phone memory is full, so I am sure my FB friends have seen the shreds that was my back tire. Anyway, the issue I am having is out side of just having bought the tires in January, out side of being charge a couple of hundread to fix the shit they forgot to reset the TPS (tire pressure system). So my counter is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/563470484444675409/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/how-hell.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/563470484444675409'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/563470484444675409'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/how-hell.html' title='How The Hell?'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2361647803915150575</id><published>2009-10-11T21:23:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-11T21:33:50.012-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Glutton For Punishment</title><summary type='text'>Last month I mentioned that I was doing a 30 day no complaining challenge and I practically bombed at my attempts to meet this challenge because I complained a whole lot more than usual.In my journey for personal growth and awareness I have gone on a spending fast. Yes, a spending fast. During this fast I will only pay bills and purchase the things that are needed only when needed, the money I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2361647803915150575/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/glutton-for-punishment.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2361647803915150575'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2361647803915150575'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/glutton-for-punishment.html' title='Glutton For Punishment'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4020261668307646055</id><published>2009-10-04T01:13:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-04T01:41:12.685-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Getting Back to Doing What I LOVE...</title><summary type='text'>For the first time in over 10 years I picked up a professional camera and set out to take pictures of my daughter as to have a selection to choose from for her birthday invitations. After having been far removed from photography (snapping pics at random events does not count) for so long I was feeling rather nervous about my performance as technology has changed since I first picked up the Kodak </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4020261668307646055/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/getting-back-to-doing-what-i-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4020261668307646055'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4020261668307646055'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/10/getting-back-to-doing-what-i-love.html' title='Getting Back to Doing What I LOVE...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_jw66FPPfO_Q/Ssg0jv0dS3I/AAAAAAAAAEY/53NQ0PWlA5I/s72-c/Rileigh+007.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8960649061964623203</id><published>2009-09-24T11:31:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-24T12:06:26.855-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Come On Friday...</title><summary type='text'>I see my impatience is rearing its ugly head but I need for tomorrow to come on. Not only is it payday but it is the weekend. I can sleep in on Saturday before I get up and go frolicking around the city ;-) or if I so choose I can lay around all day long and do nothing; the possibilities are endless. Anyway, either old age is really starting to catch up with me or I am not taking very good care </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8960649061964623203/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/come-on-friday.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8960649061964623203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8960649061964623203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/come-on-friday.html' title='Come On Friday...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2903403705927835688</id><published>2009-09-22T20:11:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-22T20:39:58.241-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Death of A Friendship, Relationship, Whatever It Was...</title><summary type='text'>I have finally come to this time where I can set my feelings for you aside. I had to take the rose colored glasses off and realize that though you said you cared for me it was a lie that even a demon in training could be proud of. Yeah I know we have been down this road before and as always you showed how much of an ass hole you really are. The first time I had to put it on you because you were </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2903403705927835688/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/death-of-friendship-relationship.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2903403705927835688'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2903403705927835688'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/death-of-friendship-relationship.html' title='Death of A Friendship, Relationship, Whatever It Was...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5896298730864205059</id><published>2009-09-19T21:18:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-19T21:23:31.745-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Can I Get A Repeat???</title><summary type='text'>Can I, may I have a repeat of today? Today was the most PERFECT day. I would say more but I have no other words to say except it was perfect and let's do it again...:-)</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5896298730864205059/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/can-i-get-repeat.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5896298730864205059'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5896298730864205059'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/can-i-get-repeat.html' title='Can I Get A Repeat???'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5241003156980031374</id><published>2009-09-16T09:48:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-16T10:18:21.919-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Re Evaluating Life...</title><summary type='text'>As I get older I notice that I am becoming more self aware. I find that I catch myself doing things out of habit and I often take a step back and think through my actions and how they may or may not fit into a pattern, then I decide to do things differently. I do reevaluate my life a lot especially in times when things are not going really well within my life. Last night I had to really take a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5241003156980031374/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/re-evaluating-life.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5241003156980031374'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5241003156980031374'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/re-evaluating-life.html' title='Re Evaluating Life...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5947475131568689502</id><published>2009-09-14T19:29:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-14T20:01:55.268-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Monday Evening Ramblings...</title><summary type='text'>Before I start incoherently rambling let me say, thank you to all who helped in what ever way (even if it was praying for a miracle) in regards to my getting my paper done. Rashad the outline was my saving grace thanks for the advice. Needless to say I got the paper finished and turned in. We have have a group debriefing to turn in this week and then I will have officially written the last </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5947475131568689502/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/monday-evening-ramblings.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5947475131568689502'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5947475131568689502'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/monday-evening-ramblings.html' title='Monday Evening Ramblings...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3917684969114570177</id><published>2009-09-08T19:21:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-08T19:33:46.580-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Writer's Block?? Or Sheer Laziness? Just Don't Want To Do It?</title><summary type='text'>I have been trying to write my final paper (research paper) for the last two weeks and with said paper due the end of this week. So far I have the cover page, the executive summary and half of the introduction page written; 15-20 pages required and only 1 1/2 done so I have another 14 1/2 pages to write and I don't know where to go with it. I can't decide on how I am going to build it. I don't </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3917684969114570177/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/writers-block-or-sheer-laziness-just.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3917684969114570177'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3917684969114570177'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/09/writers-block-or-sheer-laziness-just.html' title='Writer&apos;s Block?? Or Sheer Laziness? Just Don&apos;t Want To Do It?'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2949410103670440516</id><published>2009-08-31T22:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-31T22:28:35.875-04:00</updated><title type='text'>No Complaining Challenge Part 2</title><summary type='text'>Some time last year or I think early this year I had written about my no complaining challenge that I have participated in. The premise was and still is no complaining about the issues that come before you that would other wise foster a complaint, however you have to actually do something about it or don't complain about it at all. In 2 hours this 30 day challenge will start up for me once again </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2949410103670440516/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/no-complaining-challenge-part-2.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2949410103670440516'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2949410103670440516'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/no-complaining-challenge-part-2.html' title='No Complaining Challenge Part 2'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6096795107186166774</id><published>2009-08-29T12:43:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-29T13:19:04.623-04:00</updated><title type='text'>People Watching...</title><summary type='text'>Right now I am at the dominican salon getting my hair done and this salon is walk in only; first come first serve, my ass got here later than I usually get here so I was faced with an unusually long wait time... since I am a little irritated (just off of GP) and have to spend 45 mins under this super hot ass dryer before going to get blown out by another super hot ass dryer I figured I would </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6096795107186166774/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/people-watching.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6096795107186166774'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6096795107186166774'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/people-watching.html' title='People Watching...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3300175744525534200</id><published>2009-08-27T23:06:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T23:39:42.887-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Exercise Calls</title><summary type='text'>Monday I will be dragging my butt back to the gym. I was driving home from work today thinking about the promise I had made to myself to get back into the gym and as my mind began to waiver the phone rang. It was the trainer that I had mentioned in a few entries...yeah the one who had asked me out on a date. He was just calling to see if I was ok because I had not been in the gym in two weeks. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3300175744525534200/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/exercise-calls.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3300175744525534200'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3300175744525534200'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/exercise-calls.html' title='Exercise Calls'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4082787402309262575</id><published>2009-08-27T10:44:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-27T11:46:16.075-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Thoughts of a Restless Mind...</title><summary type='text'>My spirit is still not settled today and for some reason I can't seem to concentrate. I am tired on top of all that as well. I can't wait for this class to be over in 3 weeks then, only then will I no longer have to force myself to stay awake in the name of class work.Ok.. on with the restless randoms...As most of you may know or may not know I watch A &amp; E channel on the regular. I have to say it</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4082787402309262575/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/thoughts-of-restless-mind.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4082787402309262575'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4082787402309262575'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/thoughts-of-restless-mind.html' title='Thoughts of a Restless Mind...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5547301670580503472</id><published>2009-08-26T11:17:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-26T11:58:44.825-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ms. Independent? (Kind of Random)</title><summary type='text'>I am sure we have heard both side of the story of men and women, more specifically black men and women. You know? Why it is so hard for us to have successful relationships and some people spouting that black women have become to independent and they act like they don't need a man blah, blah.Granted I don't know how much truth lies with in those thoughts but I do know that there are a few things </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5547301670580503472/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/ms-independent-kind-of-random.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5547301670580503472'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5547301670580503472'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/ms-independent-kind-of-random.html' title='Ms. Independent? (Kind of Random)'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5256493092175189773</id><published>2009-08-25T13:38:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-25T14:34:25.026-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Getting Antsy and Just Plain Ole Restless</title><summary type='text'>Gawd, I so hate when I have a whole blog of thoughts in my head and as soon as I log into type them out they are gone... that sucks.There are some people who simply don't care for change and they are rather content with life being the same day in and day out, there are people who need a change on a consistent basis in order to evade the feeling of restlessness and then there is me; some one who </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5256493092175189773/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/getting-antsy-and-just-plain-ole.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5256493092175189773'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5256493092175189773'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/getting-antsy-and-just-plain-ole.html' title='Getting Antsy and Just Plain Ole Restless'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-3661384078595875005</id><published>2009-08-23T23:09:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-24T00:01:23.829-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Back To Reality...</title><summary type='text'>So per the previous blog entry I flew for the first time and it was a very good experience; loved it. Anyway...I had a great time in Atlanta and over all the city is beautiful. We went to the see the America I Am exhibit and walked around Atlantic Station. The weather was perfect that day...we also decided to stop and have a lil fun... I went and had a tarot card reading done.The exhibit was nice</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/3661384078595875005/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/back-to-reality.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3661384078595875005'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/3661384078595875005'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/back-to-reality.html' title='Back To Reality...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-5621744730722431281</id><published>2009-08-21T09:20:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-21T09:32:23.343-04:00</updated><title type='text'>So Much On My Mind...</title><summary type='text'>I am on my way to Atlanta and I will be flying for the first time in life. I am trying not to have an anxiety attack over this. I think back to when I was in the third grade and we took a field trip to the air port. They let us go through the process, board the plane, take our seats but we did not go any where. I was young, green as a blade of grass and knew no better. Now, shit is different, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/5621744730722431281/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/so-much-on-my-mind.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5621744730722431281'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/5621744730722431281'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/so-much-on-my-mind.html' title='So Much On My Mind...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1716125085759972802</id><published>2009-08-15T16:08:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-15T16:25:45.093-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A Soft Spot He Touched...</title><summary type='text'>Before I get into this entry I need to give an update... I did speak to Prodigal not to long after I wrote the previous entry and I explained to him how I was feeling and he understood, he was calm. In his mind he still feels as though we are meant to be together and refuses to give it up until I have another in my life. Yet, I am still not too worried about him at this point because I at least </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1716125085759972802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/soft-spot-he-touched.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1716125085759972802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1716125085759972802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/soft-spot-he-touched.html' title='A Soft Spot He Touched...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-9218841570715974125</id><published>2009-08-10T10:37:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-10T11:21:49.419-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Mid Morning Tea..</title><summary type='text'>Hahaha... yeah I did not know quite what to entitle this entry but since I just finished drinking one of what will be several cups of tea today I figured it was a good fit. Tea for me is like coffee for others, I am just not right until I have at least one cup of tea in the morning then we can talk.Anyway... as usual I have plenty going on all at once and my brain is officially on overload. This </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/9218841570715974125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/mid-morning-tea.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9218841570715974125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9218841570715974125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/08/mid-morning-tea.html' title='The Mid Morning Tea..'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7835709439284507051</id><published>2009-07-30T09:18:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-30T19:07:27.861-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Not Quite What I was Expecting...</title><summary type='text'>Ok so for the last two months I have been on the weight loss grind and ummm the results thus far...I am not happy, I am trying not to get discouraged because the above is whack and to have it happen to me is whack as shit. I had to take a step back and listen to my body and I come to the conclusion that I need to stop eating red meat all together and cut down on all of my other meats because I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7835709439284507051/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/07/not-quite-what-i-was-expecting.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7835709439284507051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7835709439284507051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/07/not-quite-what-i-was-expecting.html' title='Not Quite What I was Expecting...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-7002459132567137490</id><published>2009-07-28T10:49:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-28T11:13:39.739-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Just  A Rantilation</title><summary type='text'>Yeah I said rantilation. It is a cross between ranting and venting or ventilation... yeah I make up my own words and what?Any way... there has been something I have been witness to that bothers me, it bothers me slightly but still it is bothers me. Why do people allow for other (especially complete strangers) to run them and dictate what they do in life?? Why are you worried about what others </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/7002459132567137490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-rantilation.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7002459132567137490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/7002459132567137490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/07/just-rantilation.html' title='Just  A Rantilation'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8845936509297443002</id><published>2009-07-27T18:32:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-27T18:52:18.511-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Random Sh!t...</title><summary type='text'>Have you ever had one of those days or weeks where you just want to cuss? I don't mean random cuss words here or there I mean a paragraph of cuss words with no clean words to be found in the midst. After a week and two days of people coming at me with silly shit, I feel like that right now.Do men playing on the basketball court tend to play harder as soon as a beautiful woman sits down to watch </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8845936509297443002/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/07/random-sht_27.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8845936509297443002'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8845936509297443002'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/07/random-sht_27.html' title='Random Sh!t...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8791078384499389009</id><published>2009-06-27T22:22:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-27T22:59:37.538-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Mold Me, Sculpt Me...</title><summary type='text'>So, I am coming to the realization that I need a little help in this goal to losing the weight and tightening up. I had a stimulating yet informative meeting with one of the gym trainers who was setting me up in the computer in order to utilize the various weight machines. He was sweet enough to give me some tips in efforts to begin developing a concrete exercise program but I am thinking one on </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8791078384499389009/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/mold-me-sculpt-me.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8791078384499389009'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8791078384499389009'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/mold-me-sculpt-me.html' title='Mold Me, Sculpt Me...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8524324718374182133</id><published>2009-06-24T23:01:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-24T23:59:12.839-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Me Focused...</title><summary type='text'>Now that the Spring quarter of school has finally come to an end I have time to blog. LOL! So much has happened since my last entry that I don't where to begin...Well, Prodigal and I had a 'tiff' so to speak. As much as I like to think our situation is black and white I know it is not and the fact that I allowed for myself to get caught up was a mistake, because his time frame for executing his "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8524324718374182133/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/me-focused.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8524324718374182133'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8524324718374182133'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/me-focused.html' title='Me Focused...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-323279731060955649</id><published>2009-06-18T11:56:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-18T12:09:46.630-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Irritated...</title><summary type='text'>I can't necessarily say that I am feeling burned out but irritated is a feeling I am all to familiar with today and it is keeping me from being my usual nonchalant, yet happy self.It could be the hormonal strikes of PMS or it could be that I have an ex who seems to be pressuring me and has charted into the annoying territory, or it could be that I am getting fed up with people clearly and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/323279731060955649/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/irritated.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/323279731060955649'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/323279731060955649'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/irritated.html' title='Irritated...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6150672843130830331</id><published>2009-06-09T00:21:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-09T00:53:55.232-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Date (Part 2)</title><summary type='text'>So when I got to the restaurant I ended up having to wait 10 minutes for him to arrive and once he called me to let me know he had arrived I got out of my car to walk to the front of the restaurant to wait for him. What I was not expecting was for him to bring his friend. As he was introducing me to his friend I was thinking, what the fuck?? I mean really this is a date not a social network </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6150672843130830331/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/date-part-2.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6150672843130830331'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6150672843130830331'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/date-part-2.html' title='The Date (Part 2)'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1712716310466410855</id><published>2009-06-08T11:44:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-08T12:04:29.591-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A Voice On the Phone...</title><summary type='text'>Ok, ok sooo I picked up the phone and the voice on the end was of this guy that works in another department of my company. Basically he was calling in regards to something I had submitted. It was friendly, slightly flirty conversation in regards to the profile and my rushing to get out of the office. Unusual for me it was because though we have spoken before for some reason this time was </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1712716310466410855/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/voice-on-phone.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1712716310466410855'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1712716310466410855'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/06/voice-on-phone.html' title='A Voice On the Phone...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8851115218891406950</id><published>2009-05-31T00:32:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-31T00:53:18.254-04:00</updated><title type='text'>People Are Crazy!</title><summary type='text'>I was talking to one of my gentleman friends tonight and some thing disturbing came out in our conversation. He was talking about buying a home and he kept on talking about specifically renting the top portion to a woman with children and he stay in the basement portion of the house. Considering I have always had the gut feeling that he was not one to entrust with the care of ones child I asked </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8851115218891406950/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/people-are-crazy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8851115218891406950'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8851115218891406950'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/people-are-crazy.html' title='People Are Crazy!'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-6174140823181094444</id><published>2009-05-30T22:27:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T22:59:40.516-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Not A Twang, Not A Ping, Just A Prayer...</title><summary type='text'>I must say that I had a wonderful day today. I went to the Cheesecake Factory for  lunch with my children as to continue the celebration of my birthday. We decided to take our Cheesecake to go and hit my favorite place on Earth, the botanical gardens. Why is it my favorite place? Because it is the most peaceful place. It could be packed with walkers and lovers and still be the most quiet, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/6174140823181094444/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/not-twang-not-ping-just-prayer.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6174140823181094444'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/6174140823181094444'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/not-twang-not-ping-just-prayer.html' title='Not A Twang, Not A Ping, Just A Prayer...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2979827865054638683</id><published>2009-05-29T00:23:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-29T09:23:13.382-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Can't Get The Thoughts Together So I'd Rather Just Ramble</title><summary type='text'>I am not certain if this is going to be a random ramble per se but I have had some things on my mind for a while and just thinking about them makes me think about how funny life is sometimes.Coming this December I would have been divorced for 7 years and after I had gotten divorced I can't say I was to quick to want to remarry again. I mean, why? What for? I had just gotten out of a marriage </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2979827865054638683/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/cant-get-thoughts-together-so-id-rather.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2979827865054638683'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2979827865054638683'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/cant-get-thoughts-together-so-id-rather.html' title='Can&apos;t Get The Thoughts Together So I&apos;d Rather Just Ramble'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-1261736643158927021</id><published>2009-05-26T22:44:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-26T23:03:46.713-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ahhhh...</title><summary type='text'>Today was actually a good day and I can say it was a nice birthday. Though there are times when I may feel as though the light is not shining I do know that over all I am blessed and my good days out weigh my bad days by far.The sweetest moments of my day was my daughter telling me happy birthday and informing me that I need to get white gloves, white shoes and a white dress; that we were going </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/1261736643158927021/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/ahhhh.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1261736643158927021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/1261736643158927021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/ahhhh.html' title='Ahhhh...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-2049314878944229943</id><published>2009-05-25T13:51:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-25T14:17:51.707-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Out Of The Blue...</title><summary type='text'>Out of the blue yesterday evening I began to receive these text messages from a number unfamiliar to me. I immediately asked the person who they were and low and behold it was my ex, who I have written about on this here blog and will call the Anita Baker Bandit. LOL!I just don't have a full understanding as to why a man comes out of the dark corners of the world to express wanting to make things</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/2049314878944229943/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/out-of-blue.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2049314878944229943'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/2049314878944229943'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/out-of-blue.html' title='Out Of The Blue...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4936053121123671232</id><published>2009-05-23T23:17:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-23T23:42:39.756-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Where To Go From Here??</title><summary type='text'>This coming Tuesday is my birthday and I will officially be 32 years of age on that day. No it is not a shameless plug just follow me because I really am going some where with this. Since I turned 30 every year my birthday rolls around I begin to reflect on my life and every year I come to the same conclusion... I never imagined that my life would be like this. Still struggling with finishing up </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4936053121123671232/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/where-to-go-from-here.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4936053121123671232'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4936053121123671232'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/where-to-go-from-here.html' title='Where To Go From Here??'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8291808991836369772</id><published>2009-05-17T23:28:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-17T23:56:10.575-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Inspiration...</title><summary type='text'>This weekend I went to Delaware to witness my cousin walk across the stage and receive her degree in Elementary Education from Delaware State University. Let me just say that this will be the most memorable graduation I have ever had the pleasure of attending because it RAINED and it rained hard. Despite the fact that the wind was blowing the rain in every direction known to man the school </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8291808991836369772/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/inspiration.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8291808991836369772'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8291808991836369772'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/inspiration.html' title='Inspiration...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4763306476353802064</id><published>2009-05-16T21:12:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T21:30:53.472-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Cusstomer Service</title><summary type='text'>Yes, I am quite aware of the spelling in the title because I meant to spell it like that. Now that we got that out of the way, for some reason I have taken notice of the level of customer service that is being given. I went to the spa for a super deluxe spa pedicure courtesy of my three year old daughter. During this super duper, luxurious treatment and massage she stops cold to answer her cell </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4763306476353802064/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/cusstomer-service.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4763306476353802064'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4763306476353802064'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/cusstomer-service.html' title='Cusstomer Service'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-8304510655739565245</id><published>2009-05-15T10:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-15T10:51:22.117-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Nervous</title><summary type='text'>Let me just say that since I got this new phone I am feeling less limited than I was feeling before, and yes I am blogging via said phone yet again. I am sitting here patiently awaiting my performance review and as the reviews dwindle down to me being left to receive mine I am beginning to get nervous, a little light headed even.Even though the written portion of my review was excellent who knows</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/8304510655739565245/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/nervous.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8304510655739565245'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/8304510655739565245'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/nervous.html' title='Nervous'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-9033897710399863446</id><published>2009-05-14T18:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-14T19:12:29.623-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Laundromat</title><summary type='text'>Yes, I am literally in the laundromat...blogging. I figured I would come in and dust this thing off with some random shit tonight. First up, I have realized that being with certain people ruins shit that one used to like for every time you hear a song, smell a certain scent you have these bad memories and awful feelings that follow behind.For instance when Mickey and I were dating this time last </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/9033897710399863446/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/laundromat.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9033897710399863446'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/9033897710399863446'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/05/laundromat.html' title='Laundromat'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9050505994149894215.post-4223157609390936687</id><published>2009-04-15T20:35:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-15T21:14:08.368-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Metro Rail We Meet Again...</title><summary type='text'>Ugh! Though Metro's prices continue to change I see the Metro rail service and its users don't. For the first time in seven years I had to take the train during the rush hour period into DC. Everything was cool until I got to the orange line platform. There was this man standing on the platform with his blackberry in one hand and promptly digging way up in his nose with the other. I had to move </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/feeds/4223157609390936687/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/04/metro-rail-we-meet-again.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4223157609390936687'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9050505994149894215/posts/default/4223157609390936687'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://graceundafire.blogspot.com/2009/04/metro-rail-we-meet-again.html' title='Metro Rail We Meet Again...'/><author><name>Miss. Lady</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01877547198382830610</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-DZUsPC1q1Es/Ti8G8NuqL5I/AAAAAAAAAGs/QmjcBBvZ0Nw/s220/Browsing.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
