Just A Theory

Before I get into this entry I am just going to fore warn you all that I will be trying some thing new with the blog. I will have le signature after each entry and though I was completely against getting the mind spring box, I think it is called so you all can ask an enormous amount of questions anonymously, I am teetering on it but I am not completely sold as of yet. Yeah, the folks that know me know I hate being questioned. So we will see what ever I so happen to come across and throw on the blog to make it a lil different but most importantly more reflective of who Miss. Lady really is.

Ok moving on...


There is this young security guard down stairs that evidentally has a lil crush on me. It's cute that much I can say about, it's cute. But it brought me to wonder, why? Why do I attract these young men? What is it about me that keeps these young men coming? God only knows I really don't like dating younger men. Oh and yes, I have dated younger men and have lived to regret wasting my time. The conversation is different, intimacy is different it is just all different. For the life of me I don't know how the cougars in the world do it. I just don't understand.


So I decided to do a little research of my own to try to find the answer to this question. Not just because I really want to know the answer but mostly because I am bored and really have nothing else better to do than to probe into certain areas of my life. So I asked a few people who know me personally how old do I look to them. I got a range from 25-28 years old. Also considering the fact that they know me and may or may not want to hurt my feelings or have me wreck havoc on them for saying the wrong thing I ventured out and asked perfect strangers. Yep, I surely asked folks I don't know and I got the same answer, late 20's.

I was going over my results with my mentor and I told her that this must be the reason why the young, young thugs, wankstas, similac smelling guys and nasty ole suga daddies try to holla because they think I am some really young tender (still a young tender I am a 33 year old young tender). At this moment my mentor say, naw that ain't it and proceeds to tell me that young guys like older women. This completely puts a flaw in my theory and my findings and puts me in the position to where I may have to delve into this further.... hmm on second thought that would require for me to immerse myself in their young lil worlds therefore I think not. I will just continue to think that my youthful look is what is attracting the young lads. Hell at this point I have nothing else, except a prayer that an older yet mature man will take the time to stop and talk to me for a bit. It is nice to have conversation about something other than cars, rims, shoes and clothes that the young ones (at least the ones I have dealt with) complain they can't afford to buy.

With that I am out... Going to do some work. Have a great day on purpose folks!