Yeah, yeah I know I have not blogged in almost a month but I have been busy and I have not heard much noise about my absence so I suppose I was not missed very much.
Anyway...
I really, really need to get some one's opinion on this... A written dating/serious relationship/marital contract. What I mean by contract is that exactly what I mean; two people laying out the terms of the relationship on paper and if the terms are violated then it is grounds for termination of the relationship. I mean if I don't comply with the written agreement to cook three times out of the week or if I don't satisfy the number of weekly sexual obligations then that's it, it's done (and vice versa of course). LOL!
I mean technically we all tell our partners or potential partners what we want and our expectations of them and hope/expect for that person to meet those expectations but for it to be a concrete, contractual thing?? Wow, just wow. That is a new concept to me. Wouldn't something like that take away the emotions that comes with being in a relationship?? Would it feel more like a daily chore than a loving relationship? As you can see I have more questions than answers. What is your take on it? What would you put in your contract??
Women change their mind too much for something like this. They'd renege on something, and then dangle their goodies as a way of making it go over more smoothly.
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